Consensual Incest

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There are adults who feel consensual incest should be the right of adul

ts. Unlike the child abuse of Incest in the Family, the adults don’t think there is a problem with having sex with close family relations. Can sex between close relatives ever be acceptable?


Incest in the Family

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In March 2004 a 58 year old man was charged with killing nine children in the family. The children were his by various females, which is where the story becomes bizarre. According to the, Marcus Wesson is a Seven Day Adventist. The Mercury News stated in the article that Wesson attended Seventh – day Adventist church services over the years.  Information was obtained from officials at the Central California Conference of Seventh-day Adventists.  It seems that only part of the family were formally members of any congregation. It seems Marcus Wesson abused religion by practicing incest, polygamy, physical, mental, sexual abuse and now murder.

A Dog’s Purpose (from a 6-year-old)

Another gem from the email:

Being a veterinarian, I had been  called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog’s  owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached  to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and  found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn’t do anything for  Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in  their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought  it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as  though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I  felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker ‘s family surrounded him. Shane  seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he  understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully  away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker’s transition without any  difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker’s Death,  wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human  lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, ‘I know  why.’

Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next  stunned me. I’d never heard a more comforting explanation.

He said,  ‘People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life — like loving  everybody all the time and being nice, right?’ The Six-year-old continued,  ‘Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as  long.’

Live simply.
Love generously.
Care  deeply.
Speak kindly.

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you  would learn things like:
When loved ones come home, always run to greet  them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow  the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure  Ecstasy.
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and  play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid  biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your  back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a  shady tree.
When you’re happy, dance around and wag your entire  body.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Be loyal.
Never  pretend to be something you’re not.
If what you want lies buried, dig  until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit  close by, and nuzzle them gently.



Night Terrors in Children

When a child has a night terror, it is a frightening experience for the entire family. Children between the ages of 3-12 years, are especially susceptible to this frightening sleep disorder. What can you do to recognize, and deal with, a night terror?

Worst Germ Hot Spots



Worst Germ Hot Spots
Germs (the catch-all name for bacteria, viruses, and other microorganisms) are everywhere.

99 percent of them can’t harm us.

Clean the cavity of a bagless vacuum with diluted bleach and let it air-dry.

Focusing on cross-contamination, proper cleaning techniques help prevent the spread of bacteria and disease.

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This title speaks for itself:  Were There Other African-American Presidents?

Homemade Spa Treatments

Say NO to Partial Birth Abortion

Something with humor – Mom’s Underwear Saves the Day!

Salt and Pepper A Special Friendship

My “sister” and I met when we were freshmen at an all girls Catholic school in Brooklyn, NY in Sept 1960.  She was 14, I was 13.  We sat next to each other in every class for 4 years.  As we watch Barack Obama prepare to assume the presidency of the United States it’s hard to think back 48 years ago to the day I first sat next to Cheryl.  It was a different time in our country…in our lives.  It was before the Civil Rights movement….there was still segregation.  I bring this up because I’m Salt and Cheryl is Pepper.

This isn’t a story about an instant friendship that has lasted 48 years.  It’s about a gradual friendship that spent “40 years in the desert.”   It’s a story about overcoming bigotry and taking a spiritual high road. 

Cheryl and I talked to each other and were friendly with each other during our 4 years in high school.  Cheryl was the only African- American in a school of 1,000 girls.  Being young and self centered it never crossed my mind that it must’ve been less than comfortable for Cheryl being the only African- American, this was  because she never seemed uncomfortable.   To me, she always seemed very self -assured.  All the girls were kind to Cheryl and some included her in their lives outside of school.  I could not.  I knew that if my father, a bigot who made Archie Bunker seem benign, knew that he was paying tuition to have me sit next to a….well, you know the word he’d use… he would pull me out of that school in a heartbeat.    I kept quiet about Cheryl.  Cheryl had a similar issue w/her mother.  So the four years went by w/only some pleasantries and very few shared memories.

Fast forward to adulthood.  Ten years after graduation and I was married and the mother of a toddler.  I was very involved w/planning our 10th high school reunion.  Cheryl’s name came up on a list of those responding to the invitation issued by the school, but she didn’t attend the reunion.   However, I kept the list w/her name on it.  I kept it for 30 years.  In April 2004 I attended the 40th reunion organized by the high school.  I was 57 years old.  I had not seen or heard from Cheryl in 40 years.  I had so much fun at the reunion that I gathered email addresses from several of the “girls” from my class and started an email chain, writing newsletters to keep everyone connected.  Marita was so happy to be a part of this email chain and offered to help me find other classmates who were not yet included.  She asked if there was anyone in particular I wanted to find.  I said “yes, Cheryl.”  I gave her the address I’d kept for 30 years.  To this day I have no idea HOW Marita found Cheryl on the internet but she did.  Cheryl was living in Silver Spring, MD at the time.  It was Oct….6 months after the reunion.  I emailed to Cheryl immediately and received a very quick reply.  There was true joy in finding each other.  Emails went back and forth almost every day.  I suggested we meet and we agreed on meeting at the Inner Harbor in Baltimore.  I told her I was coming w/three other classmates….Kathy, who sat in front of me, Regina, who sat behind me and another Kathy who sat on the other side of the room.  We call ourselves the Jersey Girls.  So on a Sat in Nov 2004 the Jersey Girls met at my house and I drove us all to the Cheesecake Factory at the Inner Harbor in Baltimore.  None of us had seen Cheryl in 40 years. 

Once seated at a booth I left the “girls” to wait for Cheryl in the lobby.  She walked in and right past me….I wasn’t too sure it was her, but called out “Cheryl” and she turned right around.  We HUGGED!!!  I led her to our booth and it was amazing to see her so embraced by the other girls.  We had a great time and dominated that table for hours.  We knew we were going to be linked together for the rest of our lives.

The last four years have been so full of LIVING and the best part is I get to share it w/Cheryl.   Together we counted down her final year of working and she retired and moved to Florida.  Two of my sons have gotten married, and I now have two granddaughters.    Sharing every part of our lives is a gift we both treasure.  We’ve discovered how many things we have in common…..values, hobbies and spirituality to name just a few. 

If you have enjoyed Salt and Pepper so far please come back.  I plan on writing much more.

Brooklyn, NY~The One & Only

A Great Email I Got:


1. The subway, bus and the trolley were only a thin dime to ride, and if you are really old, you’ll remember a nickel a ride.
2. Schools were the showcase for the whole country.
3. Tuesday night was fireworks night in Coney Island put on by Schaefer Brewing.
4. There was very little pornography.
5. There were the bath houses: Stauches, Bushman Baths, Steeplechase Baths, Washington Baths, Ravenhall and Brighton Beach Baths.
6. There was respect for teachers and older people in general.
7. There was almost no violence.
8. The theme of the music of the times, even when it became rock and  roll, was love not anger.
9. A great day was going to the beach at Coney Island or Brighton ..
10. People made a living and, rich or poor, people all knew how to have a good time no matter of status.
11. There was no better hot dog than the original at Nathan’s in Coney Island . And no better French fries than the Nathan’s thick ripple cuts.

12. There were no divorces and few ‘one parent’ families.

13. There were no drugs or drug problems in the lives of most people.

14. The rides and shows of Coney Island were fantastic: Steeplechase Park: the horses, the big slide, the barrels, the zoo (maze), the human pool table


the Cyclone Roller Coaster, the Tornado Roller Coaster, the 
Thunderbolt Roller Coaster, the Bobsled, the Virginia Reel, the Wonder 
Wheel, the Bumper cars, the Tunnel of love, Bat-a-way, the loop the loop, the bubble bounce, miniature golf, the whip, the many merry-go-rounds,the penny arcades. Luna Park , the Thompson Roller Coaster, 

the Parachute jump, 


15. The fruit man, the tool sharpener, the junk man and the watermelon man all with the horse and wagon.


16. Sheepshead Bay was Lundy’s Restaurant and fishing.

17. Only place for pizza and only whole pizzas was Joe’s Bar and Grill on Ave U. Then in the mid-50’s, a pizza explosion: you could buy it by the slice for a dime at many places. By the late 50s it was a whole 15 cents a slice!  A tuna fish sandwich or a BLT were 45 cents. A small Coke was 6 cents, a large Coke was 12 cents. Remember Vanilla Cokes when they pumped real vanilla syrup into the glass before adding the Coke?

18. There were many theaters where every Saturday afternoon you could see 25 cartoons and two feature films. The Highway, the Avalon,the Ambassador, the Kingsway, the Mayfair, the Claridge, the Kenmore, the Supreme, The Biltmore, the Loew’s Pitkin, the Loew’s Sutter, The Tuxedo, the Oceana, the Oriental, the Avenue U, the Kent, the Paramount, the Albee, the Fox, the RKO Tilyou, the Mermaid, the Surf, the Walker, the Albemarle, The Graham, the Alpine, the Rugby, the Ambassador, the People’s Cinema, the Canarsie, the Marlboro, the Avon and the Globe. 

19. Everybody knew all the high schools in Brooklyn . 

20. Big eating and coffee hangouts: Dubrow’s on Kings Highway, also on Eastern Parkway/Utica Avenue, Famous on 86th Street, and Garfield’s on Flatbush Avenue .

21. Ebinger’s was the great bakery … loved the chocolate butter cream with the almonds on the side, Boston Cream pie, and the Blackout cakes! Bierman’s was terrific also.


22. Kings Highway stores and Pitkin Avenue had their own ornate glitz as far as style goes.

23. There were many delicatessens in the 50’s — very few today. The best?  Adelman’s on 13th Avenue and Hymie’s on Sutter Avenue . Grabstein’s on Rockaway Parkway.  The food was from heaven!


24. Big night clubs in Brooklyn were the Ben Maksiks’ ‘Town and Country’ on Flatbush Avenue and ‘The Elegante’ on Ocean Parkway . 

25. There were no fast food restaurants in the 50’s and a hamburger tasted like a hamburger.

26. There was Alan Freed then Murray the K, rock and roll concerts at the Brooklyn Fox and the Brooklyn Paramount .. You had to go the night before to get good seats.

27. Quick bites at Brennan and Carr, Horn and Hardart Automat  Nedick’s, Big Daddy’s, Chock Full o’ Nuts, Senior’s, Junior’s, Grabsteins or Joe’s Delicatessen. Junior’s, you’ll be glad to know, is still in the same place, and the cheesecake is still fabulous.) 

28. People in Brooklyn took pride in owning a Chevy in the 50’s; there was nothing better than General Motors then. The cars would run and run and run, no problems.

29. You bought sour pickles right out of the barrel — for a nickel — and they were delicious. By the 60s, they cost a whole quarter.

Anyone remember Miller’s Appetizing, on the corner of 13th Avenue and 50th Street ? 

30. The Brooklyn Dodgers were part of your family. 

31. You come from Brooklyn but you don’t think you have an accent. To you Long Island is one word which sounds like ‘Longuyland.’ 

32.  You played a lot of games as kids. Depending on whether you were a boy or a girl, you could play: ringaleaveo, Johnny on the Pony, Hide and Seek, three feet off to Germany, red light-green light, chase the white horse, kick the can, Buck, Buck, how many horns are up?, war, hit the penny, pussy-in-the-corner, jump rope, double-dutch, Stories, A-My Name Is, box ball,stick ball, box baseball, catch a fly, dodge ball, stoop ball, you’re up, running bases, iron tag, skelly, tops, punch ball, handball, slap ball, whiffle ball,stick ball, poison ball, relay races, softball, baseball, basketball, horse, 5-3-1, around the world, foul shooting, knockout, arm wrestling, Indian wrestling. And then there were card games like canasta, casino, hearts, pinochle, war and the unhappy game of 52-card pickup.


33. You hung out on people’s stoops or in the Courtyard.


34. You learned how to dance at some girl’s backyard or house ..

35. You roller skated at Park Circle or Empire Blvd skating rinks in skates with wooden wheels. You had roller skates at home with metal wheels for using on the sidewalks, and you needed a skate key to tighten them around your shoes. Those metal wheels on concrete were deafening! 

36. The big sneaker was Converse. Also Keds and P-F Flyers.

37. The guys wore Chino pants with a little buckle on the back, peg pants, and the girls wore long wide dresses. Remember gray wool skirts with pink felt poodles on them? The poodles had rhinestone eyes.

38. In the 50s rock and roll started big teen styles for the first time. 

39. Everyone went to a Bar Mitzvah even if you weren’t Jewish.

40. Everyone took their date to Plum Beach for the submarine races.

41. There were 3 main nationalities in Brooklyn in the 50’s: Italians, Irish and Jewish. Then there was a sprinkling of everyone else. The Scandinavians and Greeks in Bay Ridge, the African Americans in 
Bedford Stuyvesant and the Polish of Green Point. 

42. The only way to get to Staten Island was by ferry from the 67th Street pier in Brooklyn . It was a great ride in the summer time for a dime.

43. In Brooklyn, a fire hydrant is a ‘Johnny pump.’ 

44. Rides on a truck came to your neighborhood to give little kids a ride for a dime. The best one was the ‘whip,’ which spun you around a track.

You got a little prize when you got off, sometimes a folding paper fan, sometimes a straw tube that you inserted two fingers into, that tightened as you tried to pull your fingers out again.

45. As a kid you hit people with water balloons from atop a building, you shot linoleum projectiles from a carpet gun, you shot dried peas from pea shooters, and you shot paperclips at people with a rubber band.

46. You shopped at EJ Korvettes, Robert Hall, Woolworth’s, Mays, Martin’s, Goodwin’s, Namm-Loeser’s, McCrory’s, Packers, A&P, Bohack, A&S. Barney’s was Barney’s Boys Town back then, and not a luxury store. You bought your shoes at National and Miles, A S Beck. When you got married you bought your dishes at Fortunoff’s under the’el’.

47. NBC main production studio was on Avenue M.and E.16 St . The Cosby show was made there.

48. Everybody lived near a candy store and a grocery store. 

49. The first mall comes to Brooklyn at Kings Plaza . 

50. Bagel stores start popping up everywhere in the 60’s.

51. Went to Jahn’s Ice Cream Parlor with a big group and had the ‘Kitchen Sink.’ If it was your birthday (you had to bring your birth certificate), you could get a sundae free.


52. Everybody knew somebody who was a connected guy.

53. We used the word ‘swell’; that’s passe’ today. 

54. In the summer we all waited for the Good Humor, Bungalow Bar, Mister Softee or Freezer Fresh man to come into our neighborhood to buy ice cream. In the early to mid 50s, the Good Humor man pushed a cart

instead of driving a truck. Remember the bells? A pop was 15 cents. A large cup was 15 cents, a small cup was a dime. And a sundae — remember licking the chocolate off the back of the cardboard top? — was a quarter. (Movie stars pictures on bottom of the 
Dixie cup lids). 

As a kid growing up in the 1950s we would spend our money on bubble gum baseball cards, candy and ice cream. A pack of baseball cards (complete with a stick of bubble gum) and full-size candy bars were 5 cents each or six for a quarter. In those days there were lots of interesting coins still in circulation.  Dimes and quarters we still made of silver. The oldest 
Roosevelt dimes were not yet 15 years old. It was not uncommon to find Mercury dimes or worn out Standing Liberty quarters; and Buffalo or Indian Head nickels were common too. Most pennies were wheat-backs; they didn’t get the familiar Lincoln Memorial on the reverse until 1959. With luck it was even possible to find an occasional Indian Head penny in your change. But the most coveted find (for us kids, anyway) was the unusual 1943 steel penny. 

55. Many of us would sneak cigarettes and hide them when we got home.

56. When we talked about ‘the city’ everyone knew we meant, Manhattan . 

57. The Mets in the 60’s became our substitute for the Dodgers. But they never did, and never will, make up for the Dodgers leaving.

58. In the 60’s we were ready to drive and hit the night life scene. With the car came the girls. 

59. We are all in a select club because we have roots in BROOKLYN .